Thanksgiving 2004
When I was a kid, I never liked Thanksgiving turkey. I believe that I used to say things like "I wish that we could order pizza" or "Do we have to eat turkey again? We just had it a year ago" or something similarly obnoxious. I'm not sure if my dislike for turkey had to do with the fact that my taste buds were limited or maybe that my mom produced dry and uninteresting turkeys; in retrospect, it was probably more a former than the latter.
The turkeys have definitely improved with age, probably helped by better developed taste buds, and perhaps, by some new recipes that Mom has used. They have become memorable - I kid you not, but until I was about 18, the only turkey that I remember enjoying was the one marinated in a hefty bag in the fridge for several days before bbqing. I definitely remember a few turkeys over the past decade plus (my post-teenage life): the deboned turkey that exploded after being overstuffed; the sage turkey; the deep fried turkey that the dog licked before cooking and my scientist cousin and I decided that the oil would kill the doggie germs and not to tell anyone (ok, that one was after Christmas a few years ago, but a turkey is still a big deal. and no one got sick).
We now have Thanksgiving at my cousins Mike and Stephanie's house every year. And the turkeys continue to improve. Last year, Mike brined the bird...and it was an amazingly moist and juicy and tasty and smoky concoction all bundled into one. This year, he was a little short on time; no brined bird, but still memorable and delicious. I went back for seconds...it was that good.
Holidays can be a mixed blessing. Families and friends that should be family are not always on their best behavior. Tension that has flowed throughout the year can rear its ugly head at the wrong times. Holidays can also be a joyful time, everyone happy and enjoying life and each other's company.
While the turkey is not necessarily a perfect barometer for catching the party mood, perhaps in a way it does function to set the tone for the day. I always think about the novel Like Water for Chocolate, in which the main characters food transferred her feelings to its eaters. Thanksgiving has definitely become calmer and less chaotic, and maybe the bird feels the same way?
Musings on food and life...